- When the person isn't ready to talk, no amount of coaching questions will elicit a response. Save your breath.
- Tread very warily in family or relationship issues - often these won't be able to be resolved unilaterally by your client (or potential client). Counselling and/or mediation may be the way ahead here.
- If you're in a friendship or relationship with the person, don't be tempted to switch out of friend mode or partner mode. Hang in there; give them as much time and space as they need, and let them know that you're there for them. Don't attach any preconditions. (You may both want to consider being coached by a third party, either separately or together.)
If you're feeling stuck and you'd like a bit of help working things out - we'd love to hear from you. We can coach you face-to-face, or by phone or Skype.
You can reach Qryztal Consulting on 07398 200318 - or email us: consulting@qryztal.com
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